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	<title>Comments on: Memory Keeper&#8217;s Daughter</title>
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		<title>By: Sara</title>
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		<description>I came from a very different perspective than Jenny.  I had a baby 4 months ago.  My baby is healthy and happy, and I am very grateful for that.  Of course David&#039;s decision was deplorable, but I identified more with Norah, as a woman who gave birth, and how it felt to have a new little person to take care of.  I of course could not empathize with Norah&#039;s feelings of loss and depression, but I had a much easier time picturing what she was going through.  I found myself marveling at how drastically one decision affected so many lives.  Then it made me think about my own life, and if any decisions I&#039;ve made will have such a deep and widespread impact.  

Also, while I was pregnant, my husband and I talked about what would happen if we were to have a baby with Down&#039;s Syndrome.  Many OB&#039;s conduct the test early enough so that if a woman chooses, she can terminate a pregnancy if it is certain that her baby has Down&#039;s.  Ultimately, we decided not to worry until there was something to worry about, and there never was.  However, it was a difficult discussion that I&#039;m sure many couples have at that stage of pregnancy.  Given that we had a discussion, and there was even an option to not have a Down&#039;s baby, I can almost see David&#039;s point of view, and I was not as angry at his decision as Jenny was.  I do not agree with the decision - once can only imagine how much better all of their lives would have been if the twins had stayed together, but I can understand David&#039;s fear, and his deep desire to keep his son safe and happy.  

I loved this book, and it pulled me in much faster than it pulled Jenny in.  The first chapter was a bit slow, since it&#039;s mostly background on Norah and David, but then it shifts into the twin&#039;s birth, and from there on, I had a hard time putting the book down (and finding time to read with a 4-month-old around is challenging enough!)  I also highly recommend this book, and there is definitely some excellent potential for discussion and debate!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I came from a very different perspective than Jenny.  I had a baby 4 months ago.  My baby is healthy and happy, and I am very grateful for that.  Of course David&#8217;s decision was deplorable, but I identified more with Norah, as a woman who gave birth, and how it felt to have a new little person to take care of.  I of course could not empathize with Norah&#8217;s feelings of loss and depression, but I had a much easier time picturing what she was going through.  I found myself marveling at how drastically one decision affected so many lives.  Then it made me think about my own life, and if any decisions I&#8217;ve made will have such a deep and widespread impact.  </p>
<p>Also, while I was pregnant, my husband and I talked about what would happen if we were to have a baby with Down&#8217;s Syndrome.  Many OB&#8217;s conduct the test early enough so that if a woman chooses, she can terminate a pregnancy if it is certain that her baby has Down&#8217;s.  Ultimately, we decided not to worry until there was something to worry about, and there never was.  However, it was a difficult discussion that I&#8217;m sure many couples have at that stage of pregnancy.  Given that we had a discussion, and there was even an option to not have a Down&#8217;s baby, I can almost see David&#8217;s point of view, and I was not as angry at his decision as Jenny was.  I do not agree with the decision &#8211; once can only imagine how much better all of their lives would have been if the twins had stayed together, but I can understand David&#8217;s fear, and his deep desire to keep his son safe and happy.  </p>
<p>I loved this book, and it pulled me in much faster than it pulled Jenny in.  The first chapter was a bit slow, since it&#8217;s mostly background on Norah and David, but then it shifts into the twin&#8217;s birth, and from there on, I had a hard time putting the book down (and finding time to read with a 4-month-old around is challenging enough!)  I also highly recommend this book, and there is definitely some excellent potential for discussion and debate!</p>
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